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Janine W Riley's avatar

I like the visual reminder of a person's faith and reverence that seeing you, or another woman, wearing mantilla brings. Thank you for sharing your journey of the decision to wear a chapel veil. And, by the way, even though I know it does not matter to you at all .. you look lovely in your mantilla.

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Maria Riley's avatar

Thank you! I’ve grown very fond of the look myself!

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Suzanne B Davis's avatar

I, too, have been pondering returning again to wearing a mantilla. I always enjoyed wearing one before, and as you said, I would positively naked before the Lord without one. On a couple of unexpected occasions of being in the sanctuary unprepared, I have grabbed Kleenex and placed it on top of my head. But I have no memory of stopping wearing a mantilla. I don’t remember thinking about stopping like I am thinking about starting to do so again. And I’m about no click - the buy button - away from making that final decision to do it, again. It does appear that it’s mostly younger women taking up the custom again, and I applaud them. I think it’s wonderful. As you pointed out, it reinforces one’s feminist and being set apart for a special purpose under God. And as the oldest person in my large and extended family, of which about 90% of us are Catholics, I feel a great responsibility to set an example for all the others. Another reason for me to resume my habit of wearing a mantilla, so I can lead all the others women in our family to present ourselves as a shining example of womanhood to the Lord. We have a special role to play in the building of the Kingdom of God, and wearing a mantilla reminds up of the sacredness of being female in God’s creation and in His Church. 🕊️

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Maria Riley's avatar

I truly believe that if Mary has put the desire on your heart, she wants you veiling too! I see women of all ages wearing a mantilla in my parish now. We are set apart for a special purpose, and I believe mantillas are part of reminding us of that!

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Allison Brown's avatar

I started veiling last year after the Lord made it really obvious that he wanted me to do this. I too had been admiring it and pondering about it for a while. I was so nervous as I have only seen one other lady in our parish wear one. But I honestly love it. I feel like I have my own private space that is just me and Jesus at mass and I also feel it brings me closer to Mary. I hope one day that all churches are filled with women wearing veils!

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